My Husband————–Is my soul mate.  We’ve been married now for 10 years.  Yep he’s still alive.lol. He’s a all or nothing and then nothing at all type a guy.  Just like when he brought the salt water fish tank.  Spent um………..  who knows how much. Then didn’t feed them. Which led to our fish Twitter eating Laker, Speedy, Dwight, Hummer, both the Clown Fish and a few of the Crabs (only 2 left Shaq & Sox).  See what I mean.  Ohhh!  That sound a little like me.  But back to my family.