Marriage & The Family: Dealing with Life’s Disappointments

 

There’s Joy in the Midst of Disappointment

Hearing my kids laugh these days brings me unspeakable joy.  Playing a video game together or alone, watching Vine videos or laughing at each other, are the things that make my kids Laugh Out Loud.  Actually, Roll on the Floor Laughing.

Focus on the Good

Who doesn’t enjoy hearing their children laugh?  Of course we all enjoy hearing them laugh, but sometimes I tend to take those things for granted.  I take many things for granted. Many. MANY.  But when you get a whack upside the head with life’s disappointments, you begin to draw from the unspeakable joys in your life.  You know those things we take for granted and don’t speak of? Yeah, that.  Sounds a bit cliche, but what better way, to not focus on all that’s going wrong in our life and to focus on the good God is allowing us to experience in the those times of disappointment.

Draw Close to God & Relearn

These past few years, my life has taken some twists and turns that I didn’t expect and I surely didn’t see them coming.  After I balled my eyes out, felt sorry for myself, nearly broke into pieces…. well, I think I did break into pieces.  Tiny bits and pieces.  I had to draw closer to the One that knows me and loves me more than my difficulties, than my circumstances, than my let downs and broken dreams.  I had to seek God to relearn His will and purpose for my life.  Yep, I had to relearn.  Sometimes you can get knocked down so hard that you’ll forget your own name.  Forget your purpose. Forget everything God has pulled you out of and know that He’s able to do it again.  And He will.

After recognizing that there’s joy in the midst of disappointment when we focus on the good that is continuing to take place in our life.  Drawing closer to God will help give us the direction we need in this season.  This will allow us to see the vision God is trying to show or restore in us and what he’s trying to teach us.  There’s always something to learn and we need to continue to learn from the true Teacher.  He loves us and wants us to know the will He has for our life.  Let Him show us in the thick of our disappointments.

 

 

Nicole

Helping Moms power on faith, Tune-In to family life, Flip through to do list, Turnip in the garden & tell you what’s on the Menu. Nicole is a wife, mother of 3 and a Chorkie. Blogging and vlogging about the things that she enjoys in life, her family, cooking, gardening, decorating, planning, crafts/diy, thrifting, giving roadside finds new life and more.

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My most embarrassing moment (Video)

Nicole

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A balanced life is a pipe dream

We all have dreams
Some big
some small
and some forget to dream at all

All poems aside, for the past 5 years I’ve dreamed of a balanced life. I attempt to plan, write a to do list and create routines all for the sake of a balanced life. However, day after day, month after month the balanced life that I yearn for… is like a see-saw with my 6 year old and myself.

There are days that I tell myself…
Follow your list line by line and you’ll accomplish everything your heart desires.

But today… I came to the realization that a balanced life is a pipe dream.  Do what you do, do it with excellence and to the best of your ability. Whatever doesn’t get done, get over it!

Nonetheless, not achieving a balanced life is not an excuse to live a life of mediocrity,  forgetting to dream, accomplish the goals and tasks we’ve set in place. The days we I don’t get to accomplish my tasks and dreams, I must follow through with them the next day and the day after that.

Even though a balanced life is a pipe dream.  Don’t forget to dream.

Nicole

Helping Moms power on faith, Tune-In to family life, Flip through to do list, Turnip in the garden & tell you what’s on the Menu. Nicole is a wife, mother of 3 and a Chorkie. Blogging and vlogging about the things that she enjoys in life, her family, cooking, gardening, decorating, planning, crafts/diy, thrifting, giving roadside finds new life and more.

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Marriage & The Family: My life likened to a period

Something recently happened with my phone after an upgrade.  The period was closer to the space bar, so every time I hit the space bar.I.Get.A.Period.Instead.

Annoying!

Updating.A.Post.Is.Annoying.

Texting.Is.Annoying.

It.Looks.Like.I’m.Stopping.After.Every.Word.

Which makes me have to backup and erase the mess.

Like this

How.you.doing?
How you.doing?
How you doing?
Ugh!!!!!!
ANNOYING!!!!!

Updating my social media status takes time and precaution.  The last thing I want to look like is an idiot with a whole bunch of periods after every word.

Then today, I thought about my life and how I act when I go through difficult situations.  I act like my phone.  Who would have thought I’d receive revelation from my phone?

How?

Well, those periods represent a menstrual cycle. -___- Don’t look at me like that.  An emotional rollllller coaster.

How.(insert crying and sobbing here) you.(insert happy moment here).doing? (duck because who knows what emotion is coming next)

Seriously?  Oh, how I’d love to erase the mess!  Look out menopause!

How do you emotionally handle difficult situations that arise in your life? 

Nicole

Helping Moms power on faith, Tune-In to family life, Flip through to do list, Turnip in the garden & tell you what’s on the Menu. Nicole is a wife, mother of 3 and a Chorkie. Blogging and vlogging about the things that she enjoys in life, her family, cooking, gardening, decorating, planning, crafts/diy, thrifting, giving roadside finds new life and more.

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Marriage & The Family: Mama escapes to WalMart

someecards.com - Glad your home, honey. Now, I have a date with WalMart.After being home all day with kids and a dog, there are days I have literally ran my husband over making my exit as he enters the door.

Like the other day…

Me:  I’m about to go get some bread.

Husband: I”ll go get it.

Me: I’ll get it.

Husband: The car is still warm, I’ll go.

Me: NOOOOO!  I said I’ll go! (In a voice not of my own)

Husband: -___-

So, the trip to WalMart that should actually take about a few minutes, takes bout an hour because I make sure I hit every aisle.  Don’t want to miss a loaf of bread hidden in the craft aisle.  Where’s your hideout?  Promise….I won’t tell.

 

 

Nicole

Helping Moms power on faith, Tune-In to family life, Flip through to do list, Turnip in the garden & tell you what’s on the Menu. Nicole is a wife, mother of 3 and a Chorkie. Blogging and vlogging about the things that she enjoys in life, her family, cooking, gardening, decorating, planning, crafts/diy, thrifting, giving roadside finds new life and more.

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